Been with bf 5 years.?

Nothing is wrong with you, its just that your relationship is fading. You two are changing and it seems like you are going in opposite directions. More then likely this was a young love, and you have moved on and are more friends then lovers. Talk to your boyfriend about your situation, you might find that he feels the same way! It might be time to just be friends, after all you have been this for quite sometime just failed to make it official!